Remember what Maya Angelou said? "When someone shows you how they feel, believe them the first time." But what if you're the one who did the injury? What if you're the person who hurt your partner in marriage, your close friend, a colleague or worse...
[caption id="attachment_1467" align="alignright" width="200"] You Gotta Want A Change[/caption] Have you heard the joke about the light bulb? It goes like this: Question: "How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb?" Answer: "One. but the light bulb has to want to change!"...
[caption id="attachment_444" align="alignleft" width="300"] Contempt - Corrosive[/caption] Hey, there. We're continuing on in figuring out how couples can let their relationships deteriorate and slip into some Destructive Dances of relating to each other. We started at the Marriage-Relationship Saga . We're going to keep walking...
We're going to return to the Marriage-Relationship Saga again. Back on the range with the Couple of the Hour, Bob and Kate. As they assess the way they'd been riding together, their focus turns to the Disaster Ride of Calico Contempt . Contempt sounds like...